It's just a test which will passed

I wouldn't think that it is pure hardships, but I think it's a phase whereby couples would have to go through to be stronger in their relationship. It depends on how, we faced it and go through it. There may be things that we couples wouldn't agree. So why not, as for now, let's take a step back and take a breather. Take a day at a time and embrace our differences. In sha allah. :) Amin.